That is so fetch!
It's not that I'm a mean person; I'm not at all. I just happened to date these guys at difficult times in my life...times when the last thing in the world that I wanted was a partner.
And I was the worst! I would ignore phone calls and texts for days, I would cancel dates, I would talk about other guys I was seeing, I was as disinterested and unreliable as could be.
It's not that I didn't like these guys, I did. I wasn't swept away or anything (Akala mo naman kagandahan), but I was interested and attracted. I was just not in the place where I could be in a relationship (not that desperately). As you know by now, I've been burned quite a few times and these guys dated me in between all the emotional beatings I took.
Of all my guy friends I dated, it's funny that these are the ones who keep coming back for more (no matter how many times I reject them) ... and not the guys who I had been the sweetest most amazing girlfriend wanna be to. The guys who I gave my all to seem to be the ones who leave and stay gone. But the guys who I was a major bitch to... I can't get rid of them!
Now I am not saying you should go out and be awful!
The reason I wanted to discuss the resurgence of them is because I think most girls play it way too safe when it comes to handling a guy's feelings, and there's no need to! If anything, being a little mean will make him want you more.
A lot of girls feel terrified that they might say or do something that will upset him or push him away and they counter by being as sweet as honey. I have seen this play out in the most ridiculous of ways.
The truth is,
men love the chase, they love the pursuit, they love having to fight to win over the affection of someone who is sparing with her affections. So stop tiptoeing around his feelings and putting him in front of you, at least until he has shown you that he is truly committed to you.